LOSS OF A BABY...

LOSS OF A BABY...
I don't understand what's going on...i've lost a neice and i don't know what to do...In part-I feel guilty and I can't sleep at night...I can't get that little baby image out of my head...she was so small-about the size of my hand and her tiny feet the tips of my pinky probably an inch small...I feel guilty for not being able to have the money to give to my brother so they could have buried her...no one could...we couldn't do anything and now she's just there-all alone-if she's even there still...I feel so BAD!!! I SO WANT TO CRY BUT MY EYES WON'T LET GO OF THE TEARS...i JUST CAN'T LET THEM OUT...i'M JUST FULL OF THIS ANGER THAT I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO...SERIOUSLY... MARICRUZ

I can feel your pain, Maricruz. I am here for you if you need to vent. Hope you'll be able to cry, it would do you a lot of good.

Mari, do you have Bereavement Counsellors in your area? They are attatched to the hospitals here and on hand to help anyone suffering from the loss of a loved one, including unborn children. Guilt is a natural reaction in bereavement, together with denial and anger. You need to talk to someone about your emotions who will help you work through them. You know we're all here if you need us :hug

I am so sorry Maricruz. It's terrible. Yes, I am here too if you need to talk. :hug I just hope the parents and you will feel OK soon one day. God bless you all! And God bless your little-unborn niece. I am so sorry.

I am sorry to hear this sad news Maricruz.

Please do find a counselor or someone who will be there for you, a dear friend you can talk about it. Sometimes talking does help. And we are all here to listen. :hug

My thoughts go out to you Maricruz, the loss of any one is painful, but for one so small is unbearable. I know it is hard to talk to family at this time to try and understand such events, but please make sre you talk to someone, even if it's us here. No matter when or where, we are always here. :hug

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